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So… This isn’t what I planned!

I don’t remember exactly what my Myers-Briggs profile says, but I am pretty extroverted, love to chat with intelligent people from all backgrounds, and definitely have real affinity for connection on all levels.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageGerman
BuildA few extra pounds
Height5' 7" (170 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorSilver
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Best featureSmile
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionParalysis
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Have PetsCat

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyEntertainment / Media
Employment StatusRetired
Job Title(WAS) Asst to the city manager for Communications

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsPBS documentaries, Doctor Who (before they screwed it up) old movies, and the occasional on Netflix cheese.
Favorite movies typesScience fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary
Favorite moviesThe station agent, Stevie wonder’s journey through the secret life of plants, anything by Mel Brooks, Citizen Kane (mostly serious about that one, but really just from having studied it so much in film school!)
Music typesElectronic, Classical, Ambient, Dance
Favorite artistsFrom the 1980s, Imogen Heap, everything but the girl, Peter Gabriel, James Taylor
Reading selectionNews, Biography, Fiction, History, Political, Science
Favorite booksMad monks on the road, vampire lesbians of Sodom (script), Michener tomes, me talk pretty one day.
Idea of funBeing with someone with whom I can really connect. Yes, there are certain physical features that attract me, but the brain is about the sexiest organ of all.
HobbiesLearning, Music, TV, Movies, Dining, Photography, Cooking, Cars, Computers


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingDon't drink
Social behaviorOutgoing
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Brain
Sense of humorClever
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryMore travel! My mobility is limited at this time, but I am doing physical therapy to try to improve.


Political viewsVery liberal
Attend religious servicesOn holidays
Goal in lifeI have been very lucky in my education, work, and life experiences. My chronic illness makes travel a little difficult, so I am trying to hone my writing craft.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness
Look for in a partnerLife is a journey, and (apparently) sometimes there are bumps along the road. I am looking for someone who will complement me, not compliment me, and is that a place in their own life where they are ready to climb the second mountain (Google David Brooks.)
On the first dateCoffee?