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I will do my best to describe myself as accurately as I can. My name is Todd, and I live with
Ataxia type 8 and Rheumatoid Arthritis. Ataxia is a genetic condition that affects my balance,
timing, and (to a far lesser degree) some of my finer muscle control. I am still the same guy
inside, as Ataxia does not in any way affect my intellect or thinking.

I was raised in Monroe, back when it was very small. I loved both my mom and dad, but both
have passed on now. I am an only child, as my older brother died at birth. I went through
school in Monroe, then later graduated from a local college, after getting a GED, as I
dropped out of high school.

Today, I am probably one of the most easy-going guys that you will ever meet, both very easy-going and very honest. I am EXTREMELY down-to-earth, maybe even to a fault. I could also be described as a simple man, simple, but not in a financial way, as money and good credit are mine, but only to help me through life, and are never my goal. I am truly thankful for what I have, My only two aims in life are charity and romance.

I have two kids, both live locally. They mean everything to me. I am retired now, but had a fun career in the Electronics/Computer Science field. I now mostly spend my days playing and writing music (which I am NOT very good at, but it is just for fun). I also enjoy helping others when I can, hiking, gardening, volunteering, or just watching TV. I guess I am in great shape for 60, except for Ataxia and Arthritis. Oh, I almost left this out, I bring no baggage, drama, illegal drugs, or addictions with me.

Since who we are inside is what matters most (to me anyway), here is a quick glimpse of my feelings in the words of a song that I recently wrote about the way I see life. I have included this song (poem) here, because it reflects my inner feelings. I guess it is the only song about my feelings that I ever penned, as I tend to write love songs.



Time went by so slowly
in the days when life was new
The road went on forever
beneath a sky of blue
Now it's half a lifetime later
I'm alone like I began
Eternity looms larger now
for I'm now an older man
And I have nothing left to prove
and nothing left to hide
nothing left to lose
but this emptiness inside
Never liked head games and such
honesty speaks out
If I can't do things honestly
I guess I'll do without
Life should be about my kids
my sweetheart, and our friends
It took this long to figure out
now I hope life never ends
So please come and take my hand
join me for all time
Together we will find our way
we'll find the perfect rhyme

Todd Young 2-5-20

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageGerman
Height5' 8" (173 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthNeck length
Facial HairNone
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsNone
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusRetired

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesCartoons, Documentaries, Situation comedies
Favorite movies typesScience fiction, Comedy, Documentary, Family, Animation
Music typesCountry, Rock, Folk
Favorite artistsJourney, Bob Dylan, Rush, Boston, Garth Brooks, CSNY.
Reading selectionMathematics, Poetry, Technical, I don't like reading
Idea of funPlaying music, hiking, gardening, doing whatever you are into!
HobbiesLearning, Music, TV, Family, Gardening, Cars, Camping, Volunteering, Computers


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorShy
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Quiet one
Sense of humorGoofy
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Relaxing, Sleeping, TV
Always wanted to tryPlaying drums (and I don't mean my drum-machine, which you can play like drums, but it is not the same).


Political viewsLiberal
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeTo make a positive difference in peoples lives.

Looking For

Must haveEmpathy, Sensitivity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness
Look for in a partnerKindness, Charity to the less fortunate, Romance
On the first dateActually, whatever SHE wanted to do. If left up to me, we could have coffee, drinks, or lunch.